Don’t get bored.

Hello world!I trust you are keeping well.Its December guys!Haha It all still looks like a prank to me.Anyway i’m hoping you are too in the christmas mood.

Come on lets talk.Shall we have a seat please? Thank You.

You know that feeling when you understand you’ve grown but nobody can see it really yet? From people especially my mum asking me what i’m going to do after i’m done with my studies instead she never asks who i’m going to be? Hahaha thought so too

I think if your child is of age,you should stop trying to control their life.They need to make bad decisions.They need to get burned by the world.The universe has a relationship with them that takes precedence over yours.A relationship you should be supportively witnessing not butting into every second.

Off that Pep talk now hahaha.. Did i start on a high or low? Kindly feel free to let me know.

I’m not a hardcore Instagram user,but friends and few family members are,and I see the kinds of things that are posted from people going to parties,to the beach,having a great dinner,traveling,going on a run,doing yoga and all kinds of fun that make them happy.Generally living an amazing life!

If you were to look at these on a regular basis,it would be easy to compare your boring life(looking at your phone,drafting the next post for the world or)to the incredible lives of your friends.Man its depressing.Why aren’t you doing more? Why aren’t you eating more beautiful food? Why aren’t you travelling or exercising or doing anything other than what you’re doing right now? Why don’t you have a better body? If you care so much about your own shine i bet this hits the better part of you.Its completely normal for a person to get mad when things ain’t going their way.It’s not a fair comparison,of course.I know right!

But lets change the perspective and look at it this way,Its not actually a measure of coolnes to be the loudest.,(you know being too ‘loud’ in a showy way) or have the most disruptive motorcycle engine in the city.Let me burst your bubble here,i bet you have a good memory right? Yes?  But if you remember your childhood correctly,we never cared that you had the biggest truck either.

Why?

Do the highlights determine our happiness?

Do they show us what life is about?

Come to think of it.Fantasy is the endgame of the weak.The life you want is either possible or not.If its possible,wake up and go get that shit.Light the way to something that builds rather than destroys.Don’t make people regret the energy they give you.Now! If its not,Keep it moving my friend.You owe humanity a gift.Find it and give it to us.Despite the fact that i know its so uncomfortable,The journey is hard.Sometimes it feels like its too hard,Sometimes it doesn’t seem possible or its not even reachable.

Happiness comes from appreciating what’sin front of you,not wishing you were doing something else.You find out what life is about by paying closer attention to it,not wishing you were living a fantasy.
We don’t need to be better than anyone else,we just need to love where we are and what we’re doing and who we are.That’s what matters.The comparisons don’t make us happier or appreciate life more — they make us feel horrible about ourselves.And that’s heartbreaking.

Ps:Dance through your good and bad experiences.Strive for balance.

          Happy New Week People.